Thursday, April 15, 2010 /3:33 PM
~because we're girls....
because we're girls...
Read this comic - Cari Kerja! and found it interesting.
Something different than the usual. And...
It came to me about one thing, the difference
between most girls and guys.
Here's my view about it.
1) Failures have greater impact on girls than guys.
Guys are able to move focus quickly, forgetting their failures
and moving on to accomplish new things.
Girls, needs a lot of comfort and encouraging words.
Despite knowing failures are steps to success,
but girls often feel that, failures shows how weak
and useless we are and frustrated about either
already giving your best or why haven't you given your best shot.
2) Girls easily becomes enthusiastic.
[it's a good point. lols]
When something good happens or when they've
got this great idea they wanna work on, girls gets really
excited and sometimes forgets about reality.
They often share the joy they have to everyone.
Example: Texts and calls or putting it on facebook. =.=
When it is about doing something, they can go all out.
Guys thinks on the logical side first.
When something good happens, they don't jump,
they just smile and take it as the good part of life.
[it's like as if they were never out of reality.]
When they wanna do something really exciting,
they plan out first before calling everyone
and jumping from ideas to ideas.
3) Guys are more focused.
Based on the comic: Finding a job.
Guys will focus on what they have to do NOW!
In this case, if finding a job is essential now,
then they will make sure they find a job first.
Despite having something that distracts them like,
plans to bring the girl out [based on comic],
they still are able to put it behind and do it later.
If you give them an assignment,
yes they procrastinate but when they start
doing it... they make sure it's finish.
Girls, knowing that finding a job is the main priority,
they think of all the other things and suddenly it all
becomes main priorities that has to be done at once.
Let's say... Girls think a lot, a lot, a lot.
Past, Future, Present, everything!
If a friend/guy texts her when she's studying,
70% will be thinking about what to reply or the text.
Studying becomes a second priority.
When girls do their assignments,
they don't focus on it but look around,
do a little here and there and then go somewhere else..
Stop and talk or text or get something to eat.
there are a lot more but....
My brain's fried. Dead tired. lols.
The Good Thing About Girls?
When they're motivate,
they get others motivated and going! =D
-Slug-
+'all hanshin kyojin!' otani! grow taller!+
"i think people are always stressed with something in their life. even the happiest people would have some kind of worry. but during concerts, people just forget about it...they scream, they sing, they look like idiots. but I can definitely tell that they are having fun and i feel really proud that i'm a member of a group that can make people be like that."
-Aiba Masaki
